Chapter 5: Old Tools, New Tools - Part One
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Nietzsche was actually incredibly cautious, even stingy, when it
came to doling out personal advice. He consistently affirmed his own
life choices and personal way of Being but also said he could not offer
specific advice to another, different multiplicity of drives.
“Insofar
as the individual is seeking happiness, one ought not to tender him any
prescriptions as to the path to happiness: for individual happiness
springs from one’s own unknown laws, and prescriptions from without can
only obstruct and hinder it." (Daybreak, Aphorism 108)
So, when it comes to discussing the psychological
toolbox I want to chiefly follow Nietzsche's lead. Theoretically,
almost anything can be in a person's toolbox, any human experience can be
used as a tool in any moment. Against that apparent
infinity I want to offer some general and a few specific ideas about
psychological tools.
Most of what follows are simply
examples intended to shed light on the nature of the human psychological
toolbox. You will have to discover what works or doesn't work for
yourself. There is no “12-step program” to help you. Programs
pitched as a universal panacea to success or whatever are mostly
bullshit. Diversity of humanity ensures no single program (whether
motivational or inspirational) will work for everyone. Follow
Nietzsche's lead, just don't go crazy in the process.
The
easiest place to start is your emotions. If you can experience or
understand an emotion then that is a psychological tool. How does
this work? Fear can save your life or cause your demise depending
upon how it is used. If fear makes you hyper-aware, prepared to
react, looking for an opportunity to be proactive then obviously it is an
extremely helpful psychic tool. On the other hand, if it freezes
you, trembling, unable to control your thoughts or the fact your hands are
shaking then obviously it is an unhelpful tool.
Either
way, “you” are worked upon and “you” work upon “others” with such tools.
Fear
is a “tool” in the sense that your experience and expression of it is the
result of how you behave in fear. You literally cannot avoid using fear in that moment. How you use it is not always up to
you. Your brain reacts to most circumstances unconsciously, below
your awareness. But you can become better at observing and
controlling the effects of your emotions with neuroplasticity. The
more flexible your brain skills, the more aware you become of who you
really are. Hard-brains are always myopic in their quest for the familiar and blind to the revelations of anything strange.
Any emotion can be a tool of your behavior. Love,
which is usually accompanied by Eros, is an obvious tool to become more
intimate with someone. Hate is usually accompanied by anger and is
either isolated from or weaponized by whatever it does not like. Anxiety
and aggression, courage and curiosity are definitely in the toolbox.
Habits and drives and biases are all possible tools, too. Chances are you
already use most of the tools at your disposal. The trick is to
learn to use them differently. As Nietzsche said: “We have to learn
to think differently - in order at last, perhaps very late on, to attain
even more: to feel differently.” (Daybreak, 103)
Do you use
your tools or do your tools use you? Back to the fear example
above. Can you get control of your thoughts and react with awareness
to the situation or are you going to freak out and run, hoping for the
best? In both cases fear is being used as a tool, the first
consciously (which can be cultivated), the second unconsciously by your
inborn biases, habits, or drives. In which case those biases,
habits, and drives are using the tool – the “you” you call “you” is not
using it. You might not even be aware of its use.
A lot depends
on how you see yourself. Your tools will be used by yourself
unconsciously unless you practice a method to observe them (algorithms can
actually be a blessing here, see Part Two). The vast majority of
humans, including most enthnocentric stage and relativistic stage people,
have little or no self-awareness of their biases, habits and emotions,
though they might be highly aware of the biases, habits, and emotions of
others. To the extent that some of us gain any self-awareness we use
these tools awkwardly and often harmfully.
Luckily, many
of our emotional tools are used in beneficial ways. Otherwise, our culture would equate to chaos. Though we are perhaps more
anxious and depressed than ever in human history, the human sense of empathy
and shared suffering, shared joys, remains a powerful force (karma) in the
world. The more awareness and control we can exert on our tools
(rather than our tools using us), obviously the more we take charge of our own
lives.
Being able to see yourself more clearly means to become
aware of your habits and desires and emotions and biases. I do not
claim that we can ever completely understand, or even become aware of, all
these things within ourselves. If understanding is undertaken at all
then it is a process of discovery that lasts your entire lifetime.
You can travel far without going anywhere at all.
You
will likely find habits you simply cannot break or discover biases that
keep expressing themselves in your behavior seemingly beyond your ability to rewire
them. But you can add something to your psychological toolbox that
was not widely used 3,000 years ago or even 100 years ago. You can
recognize and name your emotions, better manage your frustration, become
less impulsive, more focused, and better take another person's perspective
by developing your emotional intelligence.
Daniel Goleman's
groundbreaking book (1995) definitively demonstrates how garnering
emotional intelligence (EQ) can lead to maximizing the ability of your
flex-brain. Becoming more emotionally intelligent is one of the best
ways to promote your brain's neuroplasicity. Some of us have a knack
for it and use our emotional intelligence to better navigate our lives.
Most of us start out as emotional idiots and have to
work on it. Most people hate this type of work (in Jungian psychology it is called “shadow work”), which gets back to my claim about the greatest challenge facing
humankind today. We might inadvertently choose to keep on making the
same mistakes because we simply don't want to do this type of self
work. Nevertheless, EQ
has emerged in the last 25 years to have a profound impact on society,
particularly in the worlds of education and business management. It
is a new psychological tool and it should definitely be added to your
toolbox.
Yuval Noah Harari (2015/2017) views our emotions in a very specific tool-like way. He sees them
as the earliest and most effective algorithms, lasting for millions of
years. Yet he says this is, suddenly, no longer the
case. He sees the immediate future as giving rise to what he calls
Dataism
which, he supposes, could eventually challenge the Western
Enlightenment. Further, intelligence (as artificial data) is
“decoupling from consciousness” and that “non-conscious but highly
intelligent algorithms may soon know us better than we know ourselves.”
(page 402)
“For millions upon millions of years, feelings were
the best algorithms in the world. Hence, in the days of Confucius,
of Muhammad or of Stalin, people should have listened to their feelings
rather than to the teachings of Confucianism, Islam or communism.
“Yet
in the twenty-first century, feelings are no longer the best algorithms in
the world. We are developing superior algorithms that utilize
unprecedented computing power and giant databases. The Google and
Facebook algorithms not only know exactly how you feel, they also know
myriad other things about you that you hardly suspect. Consequently,
you should stop listening to your feelings and start listening to these
external algorithms instead.” (page 397)
Harari
makes it clear that he does not claim to be a prophet. He suggests
that he simply offers intelligent possibilities based on what history
teaches us. He sees human history as centrally being the story of human
ingenuity and functionality in building “a global network” of information
that lasted for thousands of years, particularly after the invention of
writing. But now with AI and biotechnology we are witnessing the
rise of Dataism, the religion of intelligence itself, as separate from
physical, tangible consciousness.
I don't know whether
or not data intelligence will lead to Dataism. It is an intriguing
possibility. I am more certain that this “global data network” is
actually analyzing and learning from our humanity. We do not
see that we are being watched, the consequences of such a network. As long as the network we
supposedly “build” continues to serve our drives for consumption and
convenience then all other consequences are trivialized. For most
people drinking from a plastic straw is more important than the massive
plastic pollution to which plastic straws contribute. I'll return to
the idea of algorithms as a tool in a moment.
While many
emotions can be used for good or ill, other old instruments in your
toolbox are less relevant today. Psychological certainty, for
example, is imbued in every religion in the world. Not so in the
scientific world. Professor Harari has pointed out (2011) that science is the practice of discovery out of ignorance.
Certainty is less useful than ever before given the
diversity of knowledge and of the world and the multiplicity of
change. Being competent with uncertainty is now more
psychologically useful even though it was manifestly unhelpful 10,000
years ago. Such is the nature of the Modern. Transformation
makes previously unhelpful tools helpful and previously helpful ones into
challenges to overcome.
Other tools are more helpful than ever
before. Curiosity, for example, has traditionally been warned
against by the orthodox. Tradition teaches that it is best to keep
to the stories and rules as they are told. But curiosity enables
ignorance to work its magic and for us to discover novel things without
necessarily desiring them. Too much curiosity in the Mongol Empire
would probably get you killed. It got Copernicus and Galileo in trouble with the Catholic Church. Today, it is an essential way to
remain open to a world of constant becoming.
Curiosity goes
hand-in-hand with skepticism and imagined possibility in promoting a
well-balanced brain. It keeps you engaged, questioning, revising,
perhaps even transforming. For thousands of years “mystery” has been
the chief source of a sense of wonder in the world. Today mystery is
less valuable. People who garner wonder through mystery are subject
to all sorts of confused and conspiratorial thinking. Possibility, on the
other hand, works well with curious skepticism to maintain an openness
toward the future and a child-like sense of wonder engaged with Becoming
rather than simple acceptance of precedent.
Along
with uncertainty, ambiguity is to be treasured. Constant becoming
means constant change and very little is going to feel familiar or
“settled.” Definitive answers are always questioned. The
Modern is, at least in its beginnings, highly ambiguous. The
consequences of rapid change are, by nature, evasive in terms of the
ironclad commandments that have traditionally been the basis for
civilization.
EQ allows for seeing your own
perspective and taking the perspective of another person. Persons
with high EQ will naturally be inclusive people. Inclusivity cannot
be attained politically or even culturally. It can only come from
individuals with an ability to shift perspectives, the hallmark of
neuroplasticity. This requires a mixture of communicative
competence, tolerance, and compassion.
The great German
philosopher Jurgen Habermas addressed the practical aspects of such
intelligence before EQ was even a term. He advocated “communicative action” and “discourse ethics” and wrote extensively about their
application in the social dimension (1983/1990). “...understanding
what is said requires participation and not merely
observation.” page 27) In other words, genuine communication with another
involves the flex-brain stepping into the unfamiliar terrain of another
brain via communication.
Using human reason,
Habermas attempts to distinguish how to best accomplish this. His
“discourse ethics” (far out of fashion, but nevertheless helpful, in
today's polarized culture war reality) is a useful tool in the same way
meditation or EQ might be. It involves “the
decentering of the...person's
understanding of the world. It also draws attention to the structures of interaction
themselves, which set the parameters for the constructive learning of
basic sociocognitive concepts...” (page 132) Obviously, if you
become aware of “the structures of interaction themselves” you are going
to be highly inclusive.
So, there are several tools here of
which the flex-brain can take advantage. Emotional intelligence, communicative action, and inclusion are all geared toward and created out of
neuroplasticity. They create a feedback loop where the novel
activity or technique creates behavior and the behavior itself feeds the
plasticity of our brains. In other words, we are
hard-wiring our brain in flexible ways – another novelty of
the Modern.
(to be continued)
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